Biggest Mistakes People Make in Setting Goals

In a previous post, Plan your 2013,   I discussed how to set your goals and what to do in order to ensure you accomplish them.

In my reading this week I came a cross Michael Hyatt’s “10 Biggest Mistakes People make when setting goals”  I want to point out a few of them:

Missing the Target
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1.) They don’t write them down
2.) They don’t keep them visible
3.) They don’t stretch out of their comfort zone
4.) They don’t make them specific
5.) They don’t make them measurable

You can find Michael Hyatt’s post at “http://michaelhyatt.com/10-biggest-goalsetting-mistakes.html ” to read the other five.

As we draw nearer to the end of another year, I want to remind you that a goal is meaning less with out action.  As you write and prepare your goals for 2014, also remember to create a plan of action . So your goals don’t get lost in the shuffle.  Keep them someplace you will see them regularly, Finally, this year make plans to grow step outside your comfort zone! Set goals that you will actually want to follow through with in order to make 2014 your best year ever.

Happy Holiday’s!

Encore Post: Budgeting for Everyone! 3 tips on creating your budget |Corey L. Stokes LLC.

I will be on vacation until January 2014.  Until then enjoy your Holiday’s! Remember you don’t have to go into debt to enjoy the holiday’s.

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Living life debt free is not as hard as many people make it out to be.  It is as simple as living on less than you make, maximizing your income, and keeping your expenses low.  “Did he just repeat himself…?”  Yes I did with a reason. This is where many people truly lose the battle when it comes to debt. Either they do not know how, or they just refuse to do it.  From my earlier article, Life without credit cards , I briefly discuss what it is that I did to get control of the man I shaved with every morning. A budget!  Many, however shy away from this term.  I will tell you that budget is now a four letter word.  Here are three tips to creating a budget that will work for you.

Tip 1: A perfect budget does not exist. If you are like me, and you are/were trying to create a plan that you can live by week to week or month to month without ever looking at it again, stop it! The perfect budget does not exist. You will need to adjust during the month. When I started, things would always come up in the middle of the month that could not wait.  In order to make things work and to not write bad checks, I had to re-visit my budget and adjust payments for the next cycle. As time went on, fewer and fewer things fell outside the written budget parameters. I was also able to free up enough funds to create a catch-all line item on the budget. Plan on revisiting your budget at least twice per month to make sure you are on track (at least in the beginning).

Tip 2: Create a budget with all bills in hand – As you sit down to create your budget, the worst thing that you can do it to start the process without all of you information. You wouldn’t start building a building without blueprints, right?  Your budget is your financial blueprint.  As Dave Ramsey, a well-known financial adviser,  says, It is “… you telling your money what to do”.  Gather all of your bills, add them to your budget. This way you know you are accounting for everything.

Tip 3: Make sure you pay yourself. This is what it looks like for me. God first, then Me, then you. That is, First I give according to my faith. Second, I pay myself.  Money for spending/entertainment, savings, and dining out.  Then I pay bills. I don’t expect everyone to have the same payment outline as I have. However, whatever you do, as long as you pay yourself, you will make sure your credit card free life will last.

Are these the only three tips that you can use when creating your budget?  By no means.  Please, don’t take this as the golden rule for budgeting.  Everyone will have varying situations.  These three tips however, will help you to create and stick with your budget.  Remember, your budget, like you is a work in progress. As you go you’ll find better ways to do things that will fit your needs.  The key thing to budgeting is to stick with it!

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Be Financially Prepared in 2014

If you haven’t noticed yet, I am a huge advocate for the education process.  But, I really don’t have the time to spend sitting in the classroom.  I would rather pick up a book and put the principles into practice based on my life style.

In my recent post Books you Must Read, you’ll see two Author’ Dave Ramsey and Robert Kiyosaki.  Both of these authors, among others, I have found instrumental to my financial education.  The list of books below were suggested to me to further my financial education.

In sharing this list, it is my hope that they help us both reach our financial goals for 2014.

AARP The Other Talk: A Guide to Talking with Your Adult Children about the Rest of Your Life
AARP The Other Talk: A Guide to Talking with Your Adult Children…
by Tim Prosch
Lower Your Taxes Big Time 2013-2014 5/E
Lower Your Taxes Big Time 2013-2014 5/E
by Sandy Botkin
How to Retire Happy, Fourth Edition: The 12 Most Important Decisions You Must Make Before You Retire
How to Retire Happy, Fourth Edition: The 12 Most Important…
by Stan Hinden
How to Pay Zero Taxes 2014: Your Guide to Every Tax Break the IRS Allows
How to Pay Zero Taxes 2014: Your Guide to Every Tax Break the IRS…
by Jeff Schnepper
Retirement GPS: How to Navigate Your Way to A Secure Financial Future with Global Investing
Retirement GPS: How to Navigate Your Way to A Secure Financial…
by Aaron Katsman
Small Business Taxes Made Easy, Second Edition
Small Business Taxes Made Easy, Second Edition
by Eva Rosenberg

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