2026: The Year of Streamlined Growth

As 2026 gets into full swing, I’ve been reflecting on the previous year. While I hit many of the milestones I set for 2025, I realized my attention was often fragmented. I spent a lot of time analyzing different success frameworks, but as I look toward the next 12 months, I’m streamlining my focus.

This year is about one thing: focusing and streamlining my efforts. I am moving beyond old habits to embrace a mindset of intentional growth across every area of my life—physical, emotional, spiritual, professional, and financial. My 2026 objective isn’t just “doing more”; it’s about putting into practice everything I’ve learned and completing all aspects of my goals, including finally finishing a full draft of my work. By narrowing my focus to this singular path, I’m finding the clarity that escaped me in years past.

A major theme for me this year is “Getting Back to Just Having Fun.” After my solo trip to Colorado Springs, I realized that while technology should ultimately free us up for goal-free joy, it should not distract us from achieving our goals.

The 2026 Reading List: Fuel for the Journey

I’ve curated this year’s list to help me navigate the “AI Republic” and the shift in how we operate as humans in a high-tech world. Out of the 75 books on my radar, these are the ten I’m most excited to dive into to elevate my life:

  • Financial: Redefining Wealth for Yourself by Patrice Washington & Jab, Jab, Jab, Right Hook by Gary Vaynerchuk.
  • Physical: Own the Day, Own Your Life by Aubrey Marcus (focusing on optimized daily practices).
  • Spiritual/Emotional: More Than Two by Franklin Veaux & Who Is This Man? by John Ortberg.
  • Personal Identity: Identity Shift by Anthony Trucks & Will by Will Smith (upgrading how I operate).
  • Professional: Failing Forward by John C. Maxwell & Becoming Bulletproof by Evy Poumpouras.

I chose these titles because the authors’ messages truly resonated with me during the interviews and podcasts I followed last year. I’m taking time every day to journal my reflections on these, keeping my progress tangible and intentional.

If you’ve read any of these, I’d love to hear your thoughts! Connect with me on Instagram or Facebook and let’s talk about how you’re navigating your own growth this year.

EP07 Catching up with Olivia

In this episode of Catching Up with Corey, I am joined by Olivia Hayse, a marketing professional, author, and board member for the Ladies of Liberty Alliance (LOLA). Based just outside Wichita, KS, Olivia’s journey has taken her from the farm to the campaign trail and onto the stage as a ballet dancer. We explore her unique path of “multi-passionate” success and how she balances political activism with motherhood, faith, and the arts.

Olivia is the author of Crooked Paths Straight, a book detailing her personal journey of trusting God’s design through the unexpected turns of her life. A registered Libertarian since 2016, she ran for the Kansas State Senate in 2024 and now serves on the USA Board for LOLA, where she focuses on empowering women and spreading the message of liberty.

In this episode, we discuss:

Defining Success as Freedom: Why success isn’t just about money, but the autonomy to decide how to spend your time and energy.

The Power of “One Thing”: Olivia’s advice on overcoming overwhelm by picking one small, manageable goal to accomplish at a time.

Crooked Paths Straight: The story behind her book and the lessons learned from relinquishing control and trusting a higher design.

Ladies of Liberty Alliance (LOLA): Her transition from a Senate candidate to a leader in an international organization dedicated to libertarian women.

Blazing the Trail: The importance of being “first” and providing representation for future generations, especially as a second-generation Mexican American.

Adults in the Arts: Her experience returning to classical ballet as an adult with Ballet Wichita and the sacred space of the dance studio.

Purpose Through Multi-Passions: How to find a common theme—like freedom—amongst many different interests to define your purpose.


Listen to Olivia’s Conversation with me on the Mama Marketer Podcast at https://themamamarketer.com/podcast/25-get-physically-amp-financially-fit-with-my-friend-corey?rq=Corey%20Stokes

Connect with Olivia Hayse:

Instagram: @themamamarketer

Book: Crooked Paths Straight: How I Learned To Trust God’s Design For My Life

Organization: Ladies of Liberty Alliance (LOLA)

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Why Your “Emergency” Credit Card is a Trap (and What to Use Instead)

The worst thing you can do when you are struggling with money is to go into debt. That, however, is what the popular advice tells us to do. When I joined the military, one of the first things I was told was to “have a credit card for emergencies.”

But I quickly learned that I couldn’t handle that responsibility. At that time in my life, I lacked a financial buffer, so everything felt like an emergency. The easy solution to a lack of funds is to qualify for more credit, but that only solves the immediate symptom, not the big problem. Even when I began to struggle, financial advisors suggested I open a new card. They were prescribing more of the poison as the cure.

The MacBook Disaster: An “Emergency” Test

Recently, my wife and I decided to save up and switch from PC to Mac. We had lived credit card debt-free for several years and were proud to finally purchase a MacBook Air. A short time later, during the hustle and bustle of a busy day, I spilled coffee on the keyboard. It began to spark as the liquid seeped through the internal components.

Just like that, our brand-new investment was dead. This was the last model Apple made with regular USB ports, and because I was confident in my gear, I hadn’t purchased AppleCare.

I called Apple for a repair quote. The representative told me it would cost $900 to fix. Since a brand-new replacement was $1,200, I was at a crossroads. I had to ask myself: Is this an actual emergency?

In the past, I would have panicked and reached for plastic. Apple even suggested I apply for an Apple Card to fund the replacement. But because we had a small savings buffer, the “emergency” lost its power. It was a problem, yes, but not a crisis. While I was leaning toward the cheapest repair option, I remembered a better way to protect my tools: insurance.

How the “Computer Rider” Works

Many renters’ or homeowners’ insurance policies include a “computer rider.” This is a specific add-on that covers hardware against accidental damage—like coffee spills. In my case, this addition only costs an extra $2 per month on my insurance bill.

Of course, you need to have it before you need it. I learned about this strategy from Robert Kiyosaki, who emphasizes that the wealthy insure their assets. By protecting the tools I use to generate income, I ensure that a mishap doesn’t stall my progress.

I saw the “cost” of missing this protection when working with a client recently. Her computer system failed, and it could have been replaced for $500. Her first instinct was to make payments on a new system—adding more debt to her plate. If she’d had a $1,000 emergency buffer, she could have replaced it outright. Better yet, if she’d had a computer rider in place, she could have replaced it for the cost of a small deductible.

Turning a Crisis into a Claim

When I realized my own MacBook was covered, the process was straightforward. I filed a claim, provided my receipt, and explained the damage. Because I had the rider, the insurance company covered the replacement cost minus my deductible.

What could have been a $1,200 blow to our savings—or a multi-year debt obligation on a credit card—became a manageable claim. I immediately called my client back to share this, but for her, the damage was already done. She didn’t have the rider in place.

Even if you aren’t using your computer to generate income, it likely holds vital information and serves as a primary tool for your daily life. Taking the “intelligent” route means looking beyond the credit card and toward your insurance policy.

In the grand scheme of things, $1,000 is not a lot of money. However, when you are going through a hard financial time, $1,000 feels like an impossible mountain to climb. By spending $2 a month on a rider and keeping a small deductible in an emergency fund, you ensure that a sparking keyboard is just a bad day, not a financial disaster.