Privacy and Light with Gala Sidelight Solutions

This was my door the day I moved in

The front door to my house has a side window that extends the full length of the door. What was there when we moved in, was a sheer curtain held up by several thumbtacks. Needless to say, this had to go!

After a walk around the neighborhood, my wife and I noticed that many of the homes in the area actually do not have a covering on this part of their door. Anyone walking on the street can see directly into those houses. We both agreed that an open view of the house was unacceptable.  At the same time, however, we did not want to block out the natural light. The natural light was one of the main things that we loved about the house in the first place. So we searched for an option that would fit these specifications.

On one of our many trips to Lowe’s, we were introduced to the Gila Sidelight Solutions Window Film.  This, seemingly, solved our issues  The film promised to let the light through but maximize privacy. It also promised an easy install with no adhesive residue. My wife was totally convinced that I would be able to make this work for our home.

When I began the installation process, admittedly I was probably too tired to try to start putting this together. But the product did promise that the install would be simple. To my surprise, it actually was pretty easy.  My only qualm was that it was too short for the window.  About 3-4 inches of the bottom of the window was uncovered.  On top of that, no matter how hard I tried, I could not keep it from shifting while I attempted to get the air pockets out.  in the final steps, a bit irritated, from the film shifting, I stepped back and I realized that the film shifted while I was cutting and  I cut the film a little slanted.  It didn’t take long for my wife to come behind me and tear the entire thing down and highly encouraged me to start over.

I am happy to say that my second attempt went much better than the first.  Unfortunately, I do not have pictures to show these results, but in retrospect, I probably should not have started this until I was less exhausted.  A day after I put the film up, I noticed that it started separating from the window.   It was only then that I realized that there were several steps that I totally missed in the instructions, such as the film was a two-piece product that had to be separated before placing on the window.  Also, a how to install video from the manufacturer’s website suggests cutting the film before installing.  That made a world of difference in trying to mount the film to the window.  Finally,  When we purchased this product, were did not specifically go out to buy it.  We were actually working on another project (take a look at #handymanCorey on facebook to see what else we’ve done).   Lowe’s had this product in two sizes, a six foot and a six and a half foot film.  Since this was a spur of the moment purchase we did not have the measurements of the window.

Fortunately, I am not one to give up easily and the staff at Lowe’s was sympathetic to my situation.  They allowed me to exchange the product for the one I actually needed.  With the correct product, I was finally able to install the “easy-to-install” window film.  Now, we have the privacy, light and less tacky finish to our front door.

Lessons Learned!

  1.  Measure twice; Cut once!
  2. Never work exhausted.
  3. Be nice to your  hardware store personnel,  they may help you out in your time of need.

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8 Resources To Deal With Change

written by Corey L Stokes

With all that has been going on in my world, I have not had much time for anything of interest. I mentioned in my last posts that I am dealing with some changes.   To that, I will say, the changes keep on coming.  Just when I thought things were solidified and I would be able to go in one direction, I was hit with another change that moved me back in another direction.  Some would say that I was “going through the storm.”  Even though the last few months have rocked the boat a bit,  I’ve learned that the situation doesn’t define you.  At most, I can say I have a sound and tested contingency plan that actually works. Maybe in a future post, I will detail everything that has happened, but for now, I will say that just because a situation is rough right now doesn’t mean it has it will stay that way forever.  For me, At most, the change that I’ve had to deal with has only kept me busy.

I’d like to share a list of resources that have guided me through the past couple of months.  These are the books that have helped get me through some difficult times.   The lesson that I learned in these pages aided and prepared me for dealing with change, as well as help me to determine which direction to move.  Some have even help to give me a bit of perspective.

Who Moved My Cheese– by Spenser Johnson The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ck– By Mark Manson Living Forward– By Michael Hyatt and Daniel Haravy Eat that Frog– By Brian Tracy
Goals – by Zig Ziglar As a Man Thinketh– by James Allen Fearless– By Eric Blehm The Longest Rescue – By Glenn Robins

To view a full list of Corey’s Resources visit my resources page

2018 Reading List

Welcome to 2018!

In 2017, I had the trip of a lifetime and also welcomed some big changes into my life. During the year I learned that not all of life’s changes are something to be feared.  In fact, this lesson taught me all change brings new opportunities. In order to be ready for those opportunities, I needed to have a positive attitude toward change.

An opportunity that I have treasured over the last two years has been reading and listening to books with my children. We started in 2016 with the entire “Miss Peregrine’s Home for Peculiar Children series and in 2017 we completed the whole Percy Jackson series.  This year, continuing our mythology theme, we are starting the Heros of Olympus series.

Also this year, I am embracing a new journey and I am endeavoring to have fun on this journey and to continue to learn from my mistakes. Happy New Year!

“With each failure, you move one step closer to success.  It is only when you give up that you truly fail.”  – Pat Flynn –

With this mantra in mind, as I prepare my own transition,  here is what is on my reading list for 2018

Who moved my cheese – by Spencer Johnson

Tools of the Titans by Tim Ferris
Destiny by TD Jakes
Everything the bible says about money
The power of when – by Michael Breus
Secrets of a Passionate Marriage – by David Schnarch
Why Can’t you read my mind – by Jeff Bernstein
Daddy, where’s your vagina? – Joseph Schatz
Hard Choices – Hillary Clinton
Living an Empowered Life– Denise Lynch
The Measure of a man – Dr. Martin Luther King
Social Engineering – Christopher Hadngy

Every Single Day– by Bradly Charbonneau

TD Jakes Speaks to men – TD Jakes

Hit the Road Jack  – by Willow Rose

Nalah’s Suggestions (Teen- Young Adult):

Aristotle and Dante Discover the Secrets of the Universe-Benjamin Alire Sáenz

Nolan’s Suggestions: (Pre-Teen)

Going wild – Lisa McMann

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