Corey Stokes
Valentine’s Day is right around the corner, and whether you’ve been together for a few months or a few decades, planning a date can sometimes feel overwhelming. The pressure to make the day perfect often overshadows the real goal: connecting with the person you love.
My wife, Michelline, and I have been married for 27 years. Over the years, we’ve had our fair share of big moments, but the dates we remember most aren’t about extravagance—they’re about the effort, the laughs, and the connection. So, keep this Valentine’s Day simple, meaningful, and fun.
Here are some of my favorite date ideas, inspired by our journey together and
1. Home-Cooked Candlelight Dinner
If you’re staying in this Valentine’s Day, try turning your home into a romantic restaurant. Cook a meal, set the table with candles and flowers, and dress up like you’re going out. One of my favorite memories with Michey was recreating a fancy date night in our shared kitchen when we were starting out. It wasn’t about the food—it was about the effort and the smile on her face.
2. Coffee or Tea Date
Valentine’s Day doesn’t have to break the bank. Head to your favorite coffee or tea shop, grab your go-to drinks, and just sit and talk. Sometimes the most meaningful conversations happen over a warm cup in a cozy corner.
3. Share a Meal
If you’re heading out but working with a smaller budget, try sharing a meal. Order an appetizer and one main dish to split. When Michey and I were younger, this was our go-to move. We’d even let the server know our budget, and they’d help us make it memorable.
4. Take a Walk or Hike
There’s something peaceful about walking hand-in-hand. Walking together gives you uninterrupted time to talk, laugh, and enjoy each other’s company, whether it’s a trail, a park, or just your neighborhood. (Pro tip: If your partner says, “Slow down, we’re on a date,” take the hint—hold hands, match their pace, and enjoy the moment.)
5. Drinks by the Fire
If you have access to a fireplace or a fire pit, light it up! Grab some drinks—wine, hot cocoa, or your favorite cocktails—and spend the evening stargazing and chatting. The simplicity of sitting together under the stars can create some of the most romantic moments.
6. Plan an Overnight Getaway
Even one night away from the routine can work wonders for your relationship. Find a nearby hotel, pack lightly, and spend the evening reconnecting whether it’s having deep conversations, acting like kids again, or just enjoying the magic of being somewhere new, the time away can leave you both feeling refreshed and closer than ever.
The Heart of Valentine’s Day
The best dates aren’t about how much you spend or how extravagant your plans are. They’re about the connection you build. This Valentine’s Day, don’t stress over perfection. Instead, focus on talking, dreaming, and enjoying each other’s presence.
Whether you’re sharing a meal, sipping coffee, or gazing at the stars, what truly matters is the time you take to listen, laugh, and grow together. Love isn’t found in the details—it’s in the connection.
So, what will your perfect Valentine’s date look like this year? Whatever it is, make it yours. Remember, the goal is to say, “I love and appreciate you.” It doesn’t require much to do that.
Let’s talk!
Let me know what you have planned for spending time with your sweetheart this year. How will you show them you adore and appreciate them?
Happy Valentine’s Day!
Corey Stokes 
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