Budget is not a four letter word
Written by Corey Stokes
A few years ago I walked into a store with a friend. I didn’t want to buy anything in particular. But, since I was there I figured I might as well pick up a few items for the house. We completed our shopping and each paid for our items. I then proceeded to enter my charge into my checkbook register. My friend looked at me and said “What are you doing are? Are you that poor, you live on a budget?”
I have met into several people since that day that had the same type of thinking. I’ve even been left out of events, because I’m the guy that “lives on a budget.” When did a budget become a negative thing. It appears the image of the seemingly wealthy, flaunting high-priced items and the ability to spend large sums of money at any given time has made some forget the lessons of their grandparents and great grandparents, such as:
Lesson 1: Always put some away for a rainy day!
Lesson 2: Live on less than you make
Lesson 3: Save for the future.
Lesson 4: Give to a church or a charity
While past generations were taught how to balance a checkbook it seems the current generation is being taught how to juggle credit card balances. As times get harder and harder for many families, credit card balances continue to rise. For those who have made the decision to stop borrowing money at 20-30 percent interest, grandma’s way just seems to make sense! So no, BUDGET is not a four letter word.
What is a budget?
In answering this question, let me ask you, who controls your money? If you live everyday wondering how you are going to make it to the next payday; you are NOT in control of your money. In simple terms a budget is you telling your money what to do. Not your money telling you what it is doing. As financial advisor Dave Ramsey puts it. Give every dollar a name, spend this months money on purpose. Here is an article of how Dave explains it. Dave Ramsey- Do Your Dollars Have a Name?
What does it mean to live on a budget?
As my friend chastised me for entering my purchase in my checkbook register, so do many people have a negative view of what it means to live on a budget. Many hear the term “budget” and automatically think, “you must be poor”. I’ve even heard people who claim to be on a budget say “I can’t afford that, I’m poor, I live on a budget”. POOR, is not a circumstance of your finances… it is a manifestation of a mental handicap. Financial Advisor Susie Orman explains living on a budget as, living on less than you make. She advises people to live on half of their income. Susie Orman – How to live on half of your income
Who lives on a budget?
Normally you tend to hear that people who do not have much money or are living from paycheck to paycheck complain that they are living on a budget. The working class, however is not the only group that lives on a budget. In his book the Millionaire Mind, Thomas Stanley provides several accounts of millionaires that have said they’ve made their millions by being frugal and saving. Even Dave Ramsey makes the claim that rich people tell their money what to do, “that’s how they became rich people.” So if budgeting will get you rich…why then, are so many people reluctant to doing it?
While many people try to create the perfect budget for the perfect month, in doing so, they also set themselves up for failure. A budget is simply a plan. Here is an example:
At the beginning of the month I have, one thousand dollars ($1000). I create my budget to spend the one thousand dollars ($1000) for the month and everything has been paid or is waiting to be paid. One day after work, I don’t feel like cooking, so I go to the local fast food place and I spend $25 for dinner for the family.
In this example, what have I done? I’ve over spent on my budget (lived beyond my means). This one act will possibly will cause a few checks to be returned and cause many bank fees that will put me in the negative more than the twenty-five dollars ($25) that it costs to eat that one day. As this scenario reaches more and more households on a daily basis. The items and the price may change, but the costs and results stay the same. This leads to the second point. All over the world people are getting frustrated and giving up on their budget, claiming budgeting does not work. Without realizing it trying to create the perfect budget, we forget to account for Murphy’s law. So what do you do? Stick to it! Account for the unexpected in your budget. Don’t try to make a perfect budget, take it one month at a time. Here are some pointers from Dave Ramsey- The Truth About Budgeting.
Give it three to four months to start working. It won’t be perfect the first time you do it.
Spend every dime on paper before the month begins.
Over-fund your groceries category. Most people under fund that category.
Husbands (if applicable) need to loosen up and quit using the budget as a whipping tool on their wives.
If married, spouses need to do the budget together. The preacher said “… and you are ONE.”
Instead of relying on your credit card to fund expenditures that are not in your budget. Let’s get back to living within our means. Our grandparents and great grandparents had it right. Budget is not a four letter word, however it may be the four million dollar word if done correctly.
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